I am not going to go into it, but I wanted to share that my husband and I have arguing for about a week. Not the shallow bickering that is just part of marriage. I cant really describe why im upset with him, just suffice to say that I dont feel like he gives a damn about me or our son. He is acting like a teenager instead of a husband and father.
So I am at the point if I am even sure we should be together. If he wont put the effort in now, when I am 1500 miles away, then why would he when I am within arms length. It makes more sense to put effort in now, when our relationship is on the rocks, than keep saying that it will be different.
Blech, I just cant even describe how I feel right now. My stomach is sick about this. I dont know if we are good together anymore or if I am just being one of those over dramatic women. I basically told him today that I wasn't in the mood to talk to him till december(when he graduates). He responded that he knows our son is a lot of work but I need to stop taking it out on him. I havent responded because
1) I have no idea how to respond. How did our son get involved?
2) I might do irreperable damage to our relationship.
I dont want my marriage to end. I love my husband more than anything. I am just so exhausted from trying to communicate with him and decipher all of his periodic silences. I live day to day, consumed by wondering if Danny and I are okay. Are we gonna make it? Are we going to become just another military statistic? Is he going to take our son for granted, like me? Would I be a bad mother to allow that?
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